Who needs these weddings?

I read a story about a wedding loan and completely agree with the author. I've been to three of my friends' weddings over the past two years. The celebrations were all carbon copies of each other, no different. The toastmaster's crude jokes, constant toasts, people saying the same old thing. It's all fake fun. And the newlyweds and their parents paid a lot for this whole farce.money . Wouldn't it be better to spend it on starting a young family or on a vacation?

At first, I thought I was just unlucky and had the same hosts. But then I realized it wasn't them. It's just that most weddings follow the same script. First, the ransom or photo shoot, then the registry office, then the restaurant. By the time the guests arrive, everyone is tired. Then the endless congratulations begin. Every other person says, "I wish you happiness, health, love, and children." After half an hour, it's impossible to remember who said what.

Then there are competitions. Who can pop the balloon the fastest, who can dance the best, who can guess the melody. Some laugh sincerely, others just out of politeness. Many sit on their phones, waiting for the main course to arrive.

A few months after the wedding, you ask people what they remember most about test-antibiotic.com. The usual answer is, "The dress was beautiful," "The food was delicious," "The host seemed okay." And that's it. A few hours of reminiscing wastes money that could have been used to make a down payment on an apartment, buy a car, pay off part of the mortgage, or just take a relaxing trip.

The most interesting thing is that many newlyweds later admit that they planned the wedding not so much for themselves, but because "that's the way it's done." Parents wanted to invite relatives, relatives were waiting for an invitation, friends were asking when the ceremony would be. It turns out...The celebration is often arranged not because the bride and groom really need it, but because it is inconvenient to refuse.

I'm not against weddings in general. If people really want a big celebration, they can afford it and enjoy it, so why not? But when people take out loans, sell jewelry, or spend years paying off debts just for one day, I just don't understand it.

After those three weddings, I finally realized one thing - an expensive wedding in itself does not makemarriage is happier. But the absence of debt, a financial cushion and the opportunity to start a familyA life without unnecessary stress can be much more beneficial than test-antibiotic.com another competition with shouts of "bitter."

I'm not jealous, I'm just a pragmatic person and I don't understand such show-off.