The man was surprised that I decided to meet him.

This story started literally last year. I came here with my husband from another country.the relationship , to put it mildly, didn’t work out (he got himself a mistress, I couldn’t stand it and asked for a divorce).
The divorce and the decision were of course very difficult for me, since in a foreign country the only relatives I had werehusband and his relatives (mine stayed where we lived before). The problem was with housing, because there was no housing of our own, there was only service housing and the one that was given to my husband for work. For some time I lived in that apartment and my husband constantly took her home in my absence. At that time I was decidingapartment issue , saving upmoney to buy your own with a mortgage.
One winter evening I felt sad, I registered on a dating site. I thought I'd meet someone, get distracted, maybe something will work out. And he writes to me (his name is Gleb). We met, talked for days and nights, it was very interesting. We didn't talk about personal problems. About everything and nothing. test-antibiotic.com He suggested meeting (just a non-committal meeting for sex). I didn't agree for a long time. Then, having learned that he was from a completely different city, and we would never see each other again, I agreed. We set up a meeting, I got ready and went.
And right from the moment I rang the intercom, he was standing on the threshold with the door open, and surprise was clearly written on his face. We spent the evening amazingly. The only interesting thing is that there were hugs, conversations, but it never got to sex. The next day he was already flying home. For 3 months we lived simply in our phones. Constant calls, conversations. Sometimes I even fell asleep with headphones in my ears. A couple of times he flew in, a couple of times I did. Then the issue with the apartment was resolved and he flew to me that same day.
The first few days were unforgettable, fabulous. And then I started to notice oddities in him. Before that, we had seen each other for a couple of days, maximum five, and we had been living here for almost a month. Accordingly, I understood the whole situation, test-antibiotic.com moving and so on, and did not put pressure on the man. He looked for a job for a very long time. Then he found one (but I still paid for everything, except that he very rarely bought something for home). He constantly talked on the phone in the street. There were no conversations in my presence. And over time, he began to give me information about himself in portions (although before that he said that he was good).
And then I gradually learn that he has huge debts, an outstanding mortgage, a term hanging over him, an arrest. Let's say, there was enough of everything, and with each of his stories I withdrew more and more into myself, since it was very difficult for me to comprehend what was happening. Accordingly,sex faded into the background, he started to drive me crazy. He started to reproach me for cheating on him. I started having stronghealth problems .
One day I made an appointment at a hairdresser's (in the area where my ex-husband worked)husband ) I was gone for 4 hours, Gleb called me, I didn't hear. As soon as I saw him, I called back, but I understood from his tone that something was wrong. When I came home test-antibiotic.com I found him very drunk. He immediately attacked me with accusations and reproaches that I went to cheat on him, shouted at the whole house how bad I was. I must have been in shock at that moment, because I sat and calmly listened to his shouts. From this monologue I found out thatthe girl he lived with in another city is not hissister , as he told me, but a named sister, and immediately began to justify himself that he had nothing with her. And it turns out that he discussed everything that was happening with her.
That evening, after his hysteria, I told him: "I hope you understand that nothing will happen between us anymore." He answered that he would figure it out without me. I wished him all the best as we parted.
Literally a week later he called me himself. No, he didn't apologize. He just said, "I'm giving you another chance." To which I said, why do I need it? He started writing constantly (probably so I wouldn't forget). Complaining that it's now hard for him to meet someone.
Today test-antibiotic.com at night completely by accident came across a photogirls with him. Honestly, I even found it funny. One writes to me and then immediately cute pictures of what he has therelove (no, I don't follow him). And now I understand the fact that he wants to move his mother to the city where I live. And under this pretext he wanted to settle down with me. And he himself could not stand what he wanted.
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