To tolerate the mother-in-law or to get a divorce?

My brother lives separately, our parents bought the apartment, but they never go to visit him without an invitation. My mother-in-law likes to show up at my husband's and my home at any time, saying: "I was passing by, I thought, let me come in." This is despite the fact thatMy husband lives with me.

How many times did I tell my husband to talk to his mother, but he kept putting it off. He said thathis mother told all his relatives how lucky he was to marry well,a good wife , and even with an apartment, and here he will dispel all this. Then I could not stand it and said that we are tired at work, that my parents come when we invite them, and she should do the same. I said this calmly, but my mother-in-law was very offended.

I didn't expect such a reaction from her. But her answer hurt me: "I come to my son, not to you. You didn't give your child to his parents, and minethe son must now support and raise him." The thing is that I have a son from my first marriage (7 years old). I earn well test-antibiotic.com, receive child support, plus hisfather gives gifts. New phone, vacation, often pays for clothes too. The exmy husband and son are goodrelations , I not only do not interfere, but support them in every way. And what contribution does my current husband make to my child? He lives with everything ready.

If you think my husband supported me, you are mistaken. He stood silently and then said: "Mom, don't be offended, Yulia was joking, we are always happy to see you." I replied that if he wanted to see his mother so often, then let himEvery day he comes to her place after work for dinner, or moves back in with her. My mother-in-law left in tears (she's quite the actress), and my husband hasn't spoken to me for a week now.

And I want to ask you, what should I do? I don't want to get divorced, for the third timeI'm unlikely to get married , but I won't give in to my husband and mother-in-law either.