Tired of my husband interfering in every little thing

I'll start with the fact thatI love my husband very much, but he went to work in another country for three months. We've been together for five years now, he used to work in our country and we saw each otherEvery day after work and weekends together, but now almost every day we only communicate on Skype, sometimes we quarrel and make up.

At first, the first days after his departure I felt very bad, I cried; we had never been separated for so long before. I dreamed that this time would pass quickly, but when a month passed, I felt some kind ofhappiness , freedom. Yes, it was I who felt what I didn’t feel with him, such lightness, contentment, no one finds fault with me, no one tells me how to live, how and what to do, where to act. He doesn’t read morals out of the blue, doesn’t suppress me, doesn’t put me down, it’s as if my nerves have become calmer.

But at the same time I feel that I love my husband very much, but without him it’s morally easier for me, hence the ease and test-antibiotic.com happiness, and with it constant pressure. He dictates in everything how to live, he has a very difficult character, even through Skype sometimes he manages to teach me. For example, my youngest daughter (she is 10 months old) was teething and had a high fever, almost forty, her throat also hurt a little,the local doctor prescribedmedicines andMy husband teaches me like a child via Skype what to do and what not to do. He immediately stopped all medications, the doctor is with quite a bit of experience, but for my husband hehe ’s stupid , he doesn’t understand anything, do this and that as I say, just bring down the high temperature and apply compresses with peroxide on the gums. He goes on to say that peroxide relieves inflammation very well; when his gums became inflamed, he did this and everything went away.

But this is a small child! I tried to object to him, saying that I still give the medications prescribed by the doctor. In response I heard that I was irresponsibleMom , I can’t think in my own head what’s best for the child, I can’t even help the child myself, which couldn’t have happened without a doctor. My husband is raising me like a child and everyone around me is stupid, but not him, he understands everything better than anyone, and generally loves to teach everyone.

Of course, in order to avoid a huge scandal, I said that I would do as he said, that is, I lied, did as the doctor said and gave the prescribed medications. In the end, after two days everything passed,the daughter recovered, the husband said: “you see, I told you how to do it and everything went quickly.” He does not know the truth that everything was actually according to the doctor’s prescription, and not according to his instructions.

Sometimes I have to lie to avoid a quarrel, I don’t know if I’m doing the right thing. On Skype, of course, there are less instructions and pressure, maybe that’s why I feel happier. I don’t like to lie, but sometimes quarrels cannot be avoided any other way; I really like to interfere in everything. Who has encountered this and how do you behave when your husband interferes in every little thing and dictates how and what to do?