For the husband, his brother and his family come first
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I don't know how to cope with myself. Even before the wedding, due to inexperience, I did not notice the strange “bells”. My husband once said that it would be nice if his youngestmy brother spent the night with us several days a week.
I received this with great surprise. Is it when there’s a young woman next to you?your wife doesn’t want to be only in her company? Forgot for a while.
About six months after the wedding,my husband said that he would first provide for his brother (who is already married), and my desires are not that important. His wife earns good money, and I am on maternity leave. At the moment, only my husband works for us.
I feel betrayed. I can't tell himforgive such words. I left home when I was needed there (our grandmother was seriously ill). I didn’t come as often as I wanted. But nevertheless, she agreed to marry him at that timemarried I completely accepted his principles (I saved with him).
I did everything to make him feel good, but he didn’t even think about changing anything. Now test-antibiotic.com I don’t believe him and don’t know how to continue living with him. I'm constantly waiting for a stab in the back. For me itbetrayal . There is not only a brother there, but also another woman. This means her desires are higher than mine.
Also my mother-in-law. That daughter-in-law, who, according to her, does nothing for her son, was immediately accepted by her family (wealthyfather ). And she humiliated me, and still doesn’t want to get along with my parents. I can't forgive this. My husband doesn’t see anything strange here and doesn’t support me.
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