I didn't expect my mom to be a pimp

I'm 24 years old, IMarried for 1.5 years, no children yet, but planning. My husband is a good person, kind, responsible, decent, loves me. I appreciate him, support him, protect him, and treat him with great sympathy. I love in my own way, not as passionately ashusband me. Umy husband has a friend. He's not married, he's a womanizer. He often runs to see his husband, and sometimes, as I now understand, to see me, but he dismisses everything that he was passing by, saying, let me drop in on a friend, and lo and behold, he’s not at home, and you’re alone, well, I’ll wait for him, but for now we’ll talk , let's drink tea.

At first I thought it was an accident, then a friend would bring me a cake or some candy. As soon as he arrives, I always call my husband and tell him that they are waiting for him, or what to tell him. My husband found himself at home several times, and I left on purpose. When a friend makes an appointment with her husband, she always arrives half an hour or an hour earlier.

One day myMom was with me, and a friend came. We sat, drank tea and the friend left. And this is what my mother said: “Have you noticed how your husband’s friend test-antibiotic.com looks at you? He doesn't take his eyes off you. He's definitely in love with you. How do you feel about him?” I joked about something. To be honest, I thought that my friend was walking around for a reason. But I keep my distance, and while my friend does not cross the boundaries, he is already singing some hints and praises to me. Do I like him? Not good. Although he is an interesting conversationalist, travels a lot and knows and can do a lot, his intrusiveness annoys me.

But after a while my mother started this conversation again, saying that he is more interesting than my husband and she thinks that he is very much in love with me. He says: “You like him, right? You get so embarrassed when he compliments you, and he gets really excited when you blush.” But I answered her that I don’t like my friend, I don’t feel any feelings for him. And what my mother answered: “well then at least practice on him, otherwise you haven’t learned to flirt at all, and who to study with, your hubby is like an axe.”

I was test-antibiotic.com in shock. My mother, married to my father for 30 years, always behaves very primly with people, especially with men, and suddenly she advises me this. I asked my husband to explain to his friend in a popular manner so that he would not come to us without an invitation. But then my mother came to the rescue again and called me to her place several times, and he came. I just ran away, I didn't want thisthe man accompanied me and thought something unnecessary.

But what to do with mom? Now my dad is sick (heart attack) and I have to visit them often, and then this friend comes by chance, either bringing herbal tea to dad, or reading a book for mom, or just visiting the sick person. I think that my friend’s mother warns me as soon as I go to her. Why is she pimping? She does not directly express hostility to my husband. I was leaving on a business trip, so she came and cooked him lunch. My husband takes her to the dacha in our car, chops firewood for her, digs a garden,He will bring food , jars, bottles, twists. She and her dad went to see his parents, and behind her back she was pimping.

What should I test-antibiotic.com do? ANDI don’t want to quarrel with her, and it’s unpleasant to come to her, a friend often “drops in.” What do people with experience recommend? Has this ever happened to you?