Should I tell my mother-in-law the whole truth about her son?
I have already told you about my story before, how I foundhusband for correspondence with another woman.
My husband and I have been living officially for almost 11 years and have rented a room incredit . The loan is issued to me. I have a year left to pay. I caught my husband texting two weeks ago and at first he said that they were just texting, but then I found out that she was from his city!
In February, he went on vacation to his mother and grandmother, then his grandmother died at the end of February and he had to stay until March 12, and on March 8, he and I quarrel very much, again because of drinking. When he arrived, everything seemed fine, he started losing weight and playing sports. We went and updated his entire wardrobe. On April 28, he again leaves for his mother, supposedly to get documents for an apartment. He arrives back on May 3rd. All in no mood during the holidays because they were forced to work.
Then I find out on May 10 that he is corresponding with another woman, I create a scandal, and on May 11 he tells me that she is from his work, and that test-antibiotic.com they are justThey drink coffee , but he likes her. He said: “let’s leave everything as it is and that’s it.” He says that it so happened that he lost interest in me. I supposedly constantly work and drink it. Then I come home on the 15th, he is sleeping drunk, the phone is on, apparently he has fallen asleep, I go in, and there are photos with this woman even in bed! And she's from his city!
Another scandal. He goes tobinge . On my day off, I pull him out of his drinking bout, he almost sang serenades to me, that he is so bad, why do I need him like that, etc. Earlier on May 10, he told me that they were going to the dacha with friends. I agreed. This weekend has come, he seems to be at the dacha, he calls me in the morning and evening for 30 seconds and shouts that I shouldn’t bother him, he’s resting.
I’m not stupid either, I’m keeping an eye on him, I took down the details and location. As I expected, he flew to his city. I am silent, he thinks that I don’t realize. We communicate well with his mother, so I’m thinking about telling test-antibiotic.com to her or not? She will probably just be in shock, although maybe not. She will be offended that he asked her for money fordental treatment , the amount is large, but he just rolls it.
So how did this happen? What a younghe doesn’t need a wife , does he need a 40-year-old woman the same age? I accepted him with his daughter, all the holidays with her, expensive gifts, his constant drinking.
Give me some advice: Should I tell my mom? He's still in town.
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