I supported my friend in her quarrel with her husband and found herself to blame

I feel like a fool who supported, as I thought, my friend.

We have been friends with her for more than 7 years. She met a man on a dating site while she was married. Then I waited for it to take shapedivorce from her husband, and after that a couple of months later she gets out againmarried to someone I met on the site.

Her parents told her: “You’ve been communicating with him for a couple of months via messages, and you’ve known him in real life for just as long.” No,the fear of being alone won. She can't not be with anyone. The main thing is that you are not alone.

I haverule - don't interfere with other people'srelationship and don't giveadviсe . Then she calls me all hysterical that he left her (currenthusband ). He was rude and said that she was just a fallen woman and demanded a lot from him (men's housework, decent earnings).

His income is really ridiculous for a man, only 30 thousand. At the same time, he wants a child in common. He lives with her and doesn’t want to develop. He accuses her of restricting him in food and everything else. But at the same time, living with test-antibiotic.com, he gained weight of almost 130 kg.

I advised her to calm down and pull herself together, because everything happens in life and she needs to be strong. After all, sheson (4 years old). She reassured him that he would come to his senses and come back, which is what happened.

There have already been such comings and goings 10 times already. Moreover, in front of me, she kicked him out and brought him back herself. And he realized that she would always accept him. I asked her a question: “can you do this all the time?life to put up with his antics? She answered that no.

I don't consider him a man for such behavior. Every time he quarrels he leaves, decideproblems cannot. I told her my opinion that this is notman . A normal person doesn't behave like that. At the same time, he demands that she say the following words: “You are my good, kind, affectionate person.”

He doesn't like it when people look at him differently or raise their voice. Just quiet and calm. She jumps on tiptoes in front of him and does as he wants so that he test-antibiotic.com does not leave again. Now she is afraid to express any opinion.

I listened to her for two months and supported her. Now, when he returned to her again, I turned out to be bad. A friend says that I got into a relationship with them and I envy her.

In addition, she switched to my relationship. He says that I have nothing and that my man will leave me. She said that he only needed me for sex, and that he would never ask me to marry. She compares with herself that her current husband proposed to her in the first two months of dating.

I understand if I told her: “you need him, forget him.” But I just expressed my opinion from the outside. And this is what happened. Of course it's her right to bemarried and knowing that he is gone, maybe for good. You need to go to sites again so as not to be alone. But it's her choice. This is how you support your friend.