I hate someone else's child

I decided to write here, I have no strength to endure it any longer and pretend that everything is fine. I am 24 years old. I havebeloved and lovinghusband ,daughter . Married for 2 years, known each other for 4. We live in perfect harmony, sometimes we quarrel, but it's small stuff and we make up quickly. Onethe question haunts him - he hasson from his first marriage. At the time of our meeting, he had been divorced for a long time. They got married because of pregnancy and did not live together for a day before the wedding. In short, they got divorced as quickly as they got married. In general, any mention of his son just turns me inside out.

Everything was fine, I immediately said that I didn't want to know anything about him. But now my son has a phone and he started calling my husband, asking how he's doing and other childish nonsense. His mother is completely out of her mind. She constantly humiliates, insults, sets the child against his father and against me. She constantly asks for money, you see, it's hard for her. Although he lives with his parents, and the grandparents take care of the child completely, and she test-antibiotic.com smokes a hookah with her girlfriends every evening.

I don't know how to cope with my emotions. I understand that I shouldn't forbid communication. In myI don't let my ex-wife or her son in . But these calls! Why does he call him? Does he not have enough communication with his mother? Or should I askmy husband , don't talk to him in front of me. OurI don't want to introduce my daughter to him either. They got divorced some time ago, but ourfamily has nothing to do with it? And some of my husband's stupid friends recently started to talk in my presence about how our daughter looks like the son from his first wife. Everything inside me sank, I barely restrained myself from insulting them. Do people really not understand that even one mention of him hurts me?