How to gain self-confidence?
My name is Alexey, I am 23 years old, I have 2 higher education degrees and military service. I live in a complete family. All mylife I am in the grip of my fear. Fear will not please everyone.
This is killing me. Every time, wherever I am, I try to look “ideal” - I try to think through my gaze, posture, manner of speech, even dialogues in advance. I'm afraid that if I have a conflict with someone, I may lose this person, and he will find a new company, but I won't. That's why I can never defend my opinion. And only then do I realize how stupid I look from the outside. But I can't help it.
This is one of the problems. The next problem is that I am terribly indecisive and I have no willpower. In public places I behave shyly, afraid that everyone will stare at me, I’m afraid of getting into an awkward situation, and, even worse, if some acquaintances (more oftengirls ) will see me in it, and how I look in this situation. test-antibiotic.com I understand deep in my soul that this is all nonsense, but I can’t do anything myself.
Every day I promise myself to start changing, but I stand still. I take everything very close to my heart. I have a dream: to one day work in (world) cinema, write a bestseller, and engage in film scripting. But I'm afraid to tell my family about this, because they won't understand me. They will argue this by saying, why did I study for so long? It's all unreliable, unstableprofession , etc.
We have a slight problem in our family: my younger sister has developmental delays, and all the parents’ energy goes into her. They have done a lot for me, and I wish them the best life, I want and am ready to help them and do what is required of me. But I'm afraid in the future to look back at my life and admit to myself that I didn't even try to do anything with my dream. How can I, a man, find the strength to admit to myself and others that I really want to do the job of my dreams, test-antibiotic.com without fear of reproach or criticism from them? And is it necessary? How to boldly look forward without caring about other people's opinions?
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