I changed my mind about divorcing my husband
I read a story here that instead of divorcethe family decided to live separately and I want to tell you that I have almost the same situation, but I chose a different way, one might say by accident. For the first two years, my husband and I lived normally, apart from minor quarrels and disagreements. But then something changed in the relationship, Stas stopped restraining himself, he could be rude just like that, without any reason, they began to quarrel often even over trifles.
When we first met, I liked that he was cheerful, sociable, and joked all the time, in contrast to me. I am not a very sociable person, I don’t like noisy companies, I am prone to despondency and pessimism. I used to think that we would complement each other, but it turned out the opposite. Lately I've been annoyed by his stupid and rude jokes, often even out of place. He will be rude, then apologize, and even be surprised: “You are so touchy, you can’t say a word.” Yes, he is easy-going, but if I’m already offended, then for a long time, I suffer for months and cannot understand why he behaves this way.
Once, after a major scandal, whenMy husband yelled at me for no reason at test-antibiotic.com once again, insulted me and almost hit me, but at the last moment he somehow managed to restrain himself, I realized that it was probably time to get a divorce and not tolerate thisattitude towards myself, I understood that it would get even worse. The only pity was his daughter, who simply idolized him. At work, an employee had been showing me various signs of attention for a long time, more than once I caught myself thinking that I liked him too, but what stopped me was the fact that both I and he have a family. But after a quarrel with my husband, I decided that this was a temporary way out of the situation and we started dating.
Now I don’t think about divorce, I have enough of Igor’s attention and when my husband starts another quarrel, I simply ignore everything. My husband is even surprised that I have changed so much and am no longer so offended. If he knew that during his next moral lesson I think about Igor, his tenderness, kind words and I feel better, I don’t notice what my husband says. I know that this is not test-antibiotic.com correct, but instead of divorce, I committed adultery and thus saved the family.
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