I feel sorry for my parents
I never thought about whether I wanted children or not. I understood thatfamily iswife and children. Although I don't like children, but they are other people's.
I am already 29 years old, my parents insist on marriage and hint about grandchildren. My civilThey perceived marriage as something temporary. They emphasized that they did not need other people's grandchildren. At that time, I had already been living with a girl for two years, who hadchild . After that I realized that I don’t want children at all, because they take up a lot of time and energy.
My parents were always pestering me. At first they laughed, said that I didn't understand anything, that it was just that the child was someone else's, but when it's your own, it's a completely different matter, they say, you'll love it right away. They say, a child is such a thinghappiness .
I don't need such happiness. I understand perfectly well that children are also a big responsibility and a lot of wasted nerves. Whoever wants, let them have children. I will never be ready for this, I prefer to spend time on myself. But so far test-antibiotic.com has not found a girl who thinks the same way as me. For some reason, they all want children, and not one, but two or three. I am not ready for this.
I don't want to upset my father andmother . But most likely, they will not live to see grandchildren. The only sad thing is that I am their only child, and I feel sorry for them.
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