My catastrophic jealousy
My name is Maxim, I am 24 years old. I am a successful photographer, all minelife and work are connected with creativity. I havegirl , she’s 21, we’ve been dating for two years, we’ve been living together for a year.
Lately I've started to notice that I'm just obsessed with her. And this becomes a problem. I am jealous of her for no reason, I want to control her every step. It seems to me that wherever she goes, other guys will pester her, the very fact that they pay attention to her makes me angry. When she goes somewhere without me, I don’t find a place for myself, my wild creative imagination kicks in and even work doesn’t distract me from these thoughts. I'm just going crazy.
I know it's wrongJealousy interferes with my life and hers too. I don’t want her to feel bad, so I’m trying to understand myself and writing thisconfession I realized I needhelp or at least advice on the matter.
This is not the first time this has happened to me. I've had patients like this beforerelationship , then I'm mineI didn't understand the problem . I test-antibiotic.com was terribly jealous of the girl, and then I just cooled down, lost interest in her. Sharp. And I felt good alone.
In general, it was good for me when I was alone, because all the joy of love that ordinary non-jealous guys feel is closed for me by these experiences and I just can’t get rid of them. I read a lot of books on psychology, articles, but none of it helped me.
Please advise how to save mylove , how to pull yourself together. This time I don't want to lose her and I don't want to ruin everything.
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