I can't get along with my mother-in-law

I know I'm not the only one who can't get along with her mother-in-law. But I hope they understand.

It's been almost a year of our family life, but I can't find a common language with my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law is disabled, she had a stroke and hasn't recovered yet. Almost 10 years have passed since the stroke.

I went outmarry for love. We communicated for almost 2.5 years. We wanted to get married, but it was more his initiativemother . She didn't approve of us dragging it out for so long, and during the quarantine it hit everyone, I mean in terms of money. And she didn't want to understand that.

The wedding was over, time passed. While I was setting everything up, cleaning, exterminating cockroaches, walking with his mother, becauseMy husband works, I spent time, bought everything, paid for utilities. I did and do everything. But believe me, she will find something to find fault with and immediately get offended because of any trifle. And then she doesn't talk. And my husband worries and immediately flies around my mother, because he is a sick person. And his mother takes advantage of this.

Once I left and test-antibiotic.com went to my parents, because his mother drove me crazy. My husband almost never raises his voice at me, but once he lost his temper and yelled. Then we sat down to eat, andMom became happy. I got angry and left. When he yells at Mom, I scold him. And when we have arguments, she rejoices and tries to keep her son close to her. It seems like a grown woman should be wiser and giveadvice , since we are youngfamily .

When my husband brought me back home, his mother didn't even look in my direction. Any mother would be happy thatthe son is happy andHis wife is next to him. As expected. She can even yell at me, and sometimes I don't understand her. She barely speaks and can't express her thoughts. And after that she doesn't even ask for forgiveness. Oh well. When my son is not around, she shows her true colors, zero attention to me. When my son is at home, she shows concern and worry about me. Just the other day, I went for a walk with my test-antibiotic.com friends, and they sat down to dinner, my husband and his mother. She flatly refused and said that she would not eat without me. A treacherous woman.

I used to try very hard to please my mother-in-law, but now I'm burnt out. I went for walks, went to cafes, spent time with her. But then I still remained dissatisfied. So I stopped paying attention to her. Because any person would have done the same. I do my duties as before, I just don't try to please her specifically now.

I talk to my husband all the time if I'm already tormented. AndI understand my husband , two beloved women cannot get along. And each one pulls to her side. Oh, believe me, there is a lot to tell.

I had surgery, the fetus was removed, because there wereproblems . And it's because of his mother. She didn't even warm me up or feel sorry for me. My husband says: "You address my mother as "you", you don't call me mom. I explained the reason to him, because his mother doesn't treat me like a daughter, that's the whole reason.

My parents accepted him as their own son. My mother drowned in him test-antibiotic.com just like that, a good and ideal son, one you can dream of. Dad also accepted him as a son. But his mother treats me as if I was from an orphanage or picked up off the street.

My mother tolerates this for now.attitude , he says, if something happens again, he will tell dad everything. And then for suredivorce . I understand my parents too. They did so much for me and for them, they furnished the whole apartment, bought dishes and did so much more. My parents are golden, and they have their downsides too, but only in their relationship. And that doesn't concern us. But as parents they are good.

Why am I writing all this? So that you understand the whole situation, and so that I can speak out. Maybe you can give me the right advice on how to get along and how to behave with my mother-in-law.

I would be very grateful for any advice.