My mother-in-law is forcing his children from his first marriage on me and my husband
I met a guy. We started dating, getting to know each other, asking questions. I asked him if he was married? He answered that he was. He has two children.
Then, like any woman, I became interested in what the reason for the divorce was? To which I received the answer that it wasbetrayal on her part.
Time passed. He introduced me to his family. A little later I moved in with him. Everything seemed fine, but for a while. My mother-in-law started to drag in the children from her first marriage, forcing mehusband to communicate with them. Although he is categorically against it, and does not want to
But she constantly starts a dialogue about my husband's past life. She talks about his ex-wife. According to my mother-in-law, she hates her. But when I try to close the topic or express my dissatisfaction with such memories, I get the answer: "If you don't like it, drop everything and leave."
These children come to her, report everything that is happening in our life with my husband (according to the words of the mother-in-law). Then the spokes in the wheels from the ex-wife begin. There the woman is generally inadequate. test-antibiotic.com She is engaged in black magic, does nasty things, destroys families.
My husband loves me very much, but we don't have children yet. But provocations, the arrival of these children from the first marriage only bring negativity.
Tell me what to do in this situation? Help me with advice.
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