The guy disappointed me in everything
I dated a guy for three years. He was always attentive and helpful, gave gifts and called every hour. He always supported me in everything.
I was happy and decided that I was lucky to meet my soul mate. But everything changed after we started living together. Kostya decided that he did everything so that I wouldn’t go anywhere, and now it’s my turn to do everything the way he wants.
During these six months, I got to know him from a different side. Where did that attentive and caring guy go?a guy who now, whenever possible, tries to sneak out of the house to sit with friends at a bar. Kostya says that he needs more personal space and rest. Then why did he invite me to live with him? I am disappointed and already regret that I rushed to move in with him.
It’s strange that until recently he was happy about my successes (I study at university, go in for sports and dance), now he gets annoyed if I share my achievements with him or make plans. He himself graduated from college, works as a manager in a small company, the salary test-antibiotic.com is average, maybe this is where the irritation and envy of other people’s successes come from. All the housework is still on me, you can’t ask me to help, but here it’s my own fault, having taken from the very beginning the habit of doing everything to please him. There is a delicious dinner here, and there are always clean clothes and a ready-made breakfast in the morning. I wanted the best, but now he just uses everything, giving nothing in return, except for buyingproducts for yourmoney and we live in his apartment.
I’m offended, I tried to leave him several times, but every time what stops me is that I understand that I can’t do itforget so quickly. Although we come home in the evening, have had dinner and everyone is busy with their own business. Sex has become inexpressive and boring, there are no romantic dinners, no flowers, no basic attention. I don’t know how to leave, I’m ashamed to admit to my parents that nothing worked out, because I praised Kostya so much, and they themselves saw then how caring and attentive he was. Amy friends are still jealous of me, and I don’t want to give them a reason for gossip and gloating. I don’t have anyone to consult test-antibiotic.com with, but I myself can’t decide what would be best for me.
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