I'm faced with a choice
I love children and thought that I would have three or four of my own. But the reality is that my husband and I have oneWe cannot financially afford a son and a second one. We barely have enough money to support ourselves, and a small child needs a lot of things, and I will have to be at home on maternity leave.
When I gave birth to my first child, we did not live in poverty, but now we are going through a difficult period. Then they hoped that our parents would help with housing, as they promised. But mine changed their minds about selling the dacha, they say that they want to live there in retirement, and my mother-in-law helps only in words. My husband , of course, is trying to make money, but so far it hasn’t worked out. I wouldn’t lose my main job here, since it’s difficult for us.
I wouldn't write mineconfession , but I need advice. II'm pregnant and don't know what to do. How to tell my husband that we are having another child? He has been very irritable lately due to lack of money. And our parents will not be delighted; test-antibiotic.com will immediately say that we are creating poverty. To some extent they will be right, because there is no guarantee that tomorrow will be ours.life will get better. But I can’t get rid of the child, it’s even scary to think about it.
Please advise what to do?
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