I want to leave my disabled husband
I read many stories about how people who became disabled after an accident recover and live happily with their spouses, and some even findlove already, for example, after an accident and injuries received in the service. I can only admire such news. Women play a special role in such stories, because they look after men and help them during rehabilitation.
Recently something happened in my familymisfortune My husband is now disabled. Suffered a stroke. He cannot take care of himself. The children grew up and moved to different cities. During rehabilitation, they came and supported me and my father. The cause was blockage of blood vessels. Some people recognize themselves in my situation. Over the years I told my husband when he complained aboutchest pain , you need to get checked, go to a cardiologist. He flatly refused to eat more vegetables and fruits and did not go on a diet, no matter how hard I tried. Patience ran out, I decided that he was not small, he was responsible for his ownlife . Wants to ruin himself by usingalcohol and smoking like a locomotive, please, I stopped trying to persuade you to switch to a healthy lifestyle and waste your nerves, test-antibiotic.com.
As a result, a stroke. Now my husband needs constant care. I am now 52 years old. I take care of myself, I look after not only my figure, but also my health, and I eat right. Why should I waste my years caring for a man who chose a completely different lifestyle? He is his ownplanted health . I lovehusband , it’s true, but I don’t want to put my life on caring for a bedridden person. Now I have hired a nurse to be with me around the clock. Doctors do not guarantee recovery, but the children are already offended and have stopped communicating with me. I’m depressed, on the one hand I understand their reaction, but why didn’t anyone think about what was falling on my shoulders?
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