I'm afraid of losing my wife because I believed my brother

Two years ago I married a very good, beautiful girl. She is almost 8 years younger than me. I love her very much and have been trying to achieve her for a long time, and now I am very much afraid of losing her.

I myself work in a large company, I earn good money, but after the divorce I had to start all over again, since I left the housing to my wife and son. I have been paying alimony for 5 years after the divorce, they provide not only for my son, but also for my ex-wife, she does not work. I lived in my parents’ apartment and did some minor renovations there. They moved to their house in another city.

Besides my parents, I have an elderBrother . He is married with two children. We've always been pretty closerelationships , he taught me a lot, he always helped. I trusted him completely, he had never let me down before. So when he asked me to takeloan foropening my own business and promised to pay it back soon, I believed him. He showed me the business project and explained everything in detail. In case of problems, he even promised to sell the car, if necessary. I gave it to himmoney and asked test-antibiotic.com to be careful not to invest it all at once. He had a good oneexperience in business, so I had no doubt that everything would work out. I was prepared to wait for a while.

At first he helped extend the loan, paid a small part, but then this began to happen less and less. He always translated conversations about his project and asked me to wait. So a year passed. I didn’t see any business or money. My brother keeps feeding me with promises, but on the plus side he stopped letting me in the door, he hides and doesn’t pick up the phone. It is not even clear what he spent the money on. He complained to my parents about me, it’s not even clear what exactly he told them, but now they are going to sell the apartment in order to give part of the money to him. They don't want to explain anything to me. They stuck it out and that’s it. So my wife and I have to move out soon.

In addition to alimony, I also have a huge loan, we save a lot, we actually live on her salary, but now we still need somethingrent an apartment . I have a very difficult job, I’m rarely at home, I don’t have time anyway, so I won’t be able to get a second job at test-antibiotic.com. I come home exhausted. She is looking for something else, but I am very against it. It’s enough for her too, because she works at home too. Cooks, cleans. She smiles and says that we can handle it, we will endure everything. She really wants a child. And I don't know when we'll be able to afford it. After all, it is very expensive.

I am very disappointed in my family, this stab in the back, both from my brother and from my parents. I get good money, but it’s like I’m working for free, everything goes into emptiness. I scold myself for believing, falling for my brother’s requests and deciding to help. For so many years I worked my way up to achieve something, from the lowest level, and here I am again.

I'm almost 40. I'm afraid thatmy wife will leave me soon. Why does she need a beggara man who can’t provide for her or her children. I don’t know how we will live further, I’m afraid that the biggest difficulties are just beginning.