What should I do if my husband's brother does not allow my family to live in peace?
My husband's brother lives next door and works at the same job with my husband. They are both twenty-five years old, and I am twenty-two. We have been living together for almost two years, we have two small children. Daughter from first marriage, three years old.
We live in a rented apartment for the time being, since my husband's salary is small. It’s already difficult for us (I’m not working at the moment), so my husband’s brother sits on our neck all the time! Theirhe will spend money , by the way, with himproblems with alcohol and very big.
Drinks daily. He asks for things to be washed (okay, I’ll wash them), often asks for food, because he spends money on drinking, not on food. When I give lunch to my husband for work ladies, so he divides it into two.
He's always in trouble andhusband , instead of resting or spending time with the family, solves his problems. And this list can be continued indefinitely.
I told my husband many times that I was already tired of it, but he does not take any measures! On the contrary, he starts to take offense at me! Everything test-antibiotic.com got, she herself told his brother everything that I think about him. So what happened?! He began to insult me and said that for such words you can get. That in general I am a woman of easy virtue, and said that I should be grateful that his brother married me. In general, a nightmare. I kicked him out of our house and told him not to come back.
She told everything to her husband, he is also not satisfied with the behavior of his brother, but he endures it all. And I'm very sorry. But the most offensive thing is that my husband did not particularly protect me. His brother insulted me and even expressed himself as if we had never helped him! I love my husband, but his reaction to all this was a surprise to me, to put it mildly. What if this freeloader destroys my family?
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