My father's depression affected my relationship with my boyfriend
MyMy father has been suffering from depression for a year now. This is a big problem for our family. He's really exhausting my mother, who simply can't live with him anymore, becauseFather's depression takes away all vital resources. Accordingly, I constantly listen to my mother, who thus alleviates her condition. This has been going on for a long time, but it didn’t have much of an impact on me until recently because it was fifteen-minute conversations once a day. But recently my boyfriend became depressed, and I'm in a stupor. I don’t want to repeat my mother’s fate and carry around a depressive carcass that will take energy from me.
In theory, I should be an understanding girl in this situation, but I immediately develop a bias towards my mother, who was understanding to my father, and he only began to take advantage of her condition more and more. I feel like I’m turning away from my boyfriend, and how tired I am of this whole situation with the fact that I have to always listen to someone, be strong for everyone, but I’m actually not strong at all, I also want test-antibiotic.com to be weak for someone.
Mixed with all this is a feeling of guilt. When I was going through a difficult period, he helped me and pulled me out, but I can’t come to himhelp in a similar situation because it really annoys me.
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