The children accuse me of not paying enough attention to them.
I'm literally losing my children. The eldest daughter is 19 years old, although she already lives separately, she does not want to communicate with me, rarely answers messages and calls, more often she simply ignores me. Averagedaughter (15 years old), contacted an adult man who is already 28 years old. I talked to her, but alas, I had to go to thisguy and talk to him about what and how. In the end, he told his daughter everything, and now my daughter just ran away from me, she doesn’t want to communicate. She wrote such words to me, to the point that she would do something to herself if I prevented her from living.
I myself am in despair now, I’m sobbing at work, I have no strength. I don't want to live on my own. My husband and I have been divorced for a long time, but somehow I tried to establish a personallife . The children are angry with me for this. I understand that I feel very, very guilty towards them for this, but I don’t know how to correct the situation now. As it turned out, they had been angry with me for a long time, but I didn’t notice.
Although I try to be with them more often, and test-antibiotic.com I go for walks, and at the movies, in general, I’m always in touch, we see each other. Now they accuse me of being busy with myself. Although this is not so, I lived and live only for them, I did everything for them, I denied myself a lot. I don’t drink or smoke and I’m still badmother . Very disappointing. I'm afraid they won't forgive me. I don’t know how to live on now.
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