If I knew what awaited me ahead

My story began more than 15 years ago. Everything was great. The son finished his studies at the university, met a girl, they were friends for about 5 years, and then decided to get married. I didn’t really like my son’s fiancee, although the girl is not bad, but I would like to be an equal to my son. The bride's parents are simple hard workers, how will they help the newlyweds? But she didn’t argue, and they got married.

My daughter-in-law’s parents and I helped the young family as best we could. The son got a job, the daughter-in-law was still studying. A year later she became pregnant and my granddaughter was born. I was very happy, but I couldn’t let go of the thought that my daughter-in-law was no match for my son. They are raising a young daughter, living normally, but I am not very happy. All his friends and relatives are surprised why he chose her.

Granddaughter turned 2 years oldmy son's family began to collapse. My daughter-in-law started complaining and telling me: “your son is with friendshe walks every day , drinks, and often doesn’t spend the night at home.” I felt sorry for her like a woman and promised to talk to my son. I think to myself: “How can you not go for a walk here, he test-antibiotic.com works, the poor thing is tired, I should help my husband and go to work. He sits at home all day, and he spins like a squirrel in a wheel to feed his family, and that he can’t sit and relax with friends. My restless daughter doesn’t let me sleep at night, so she doesn’t spend the night at home, she wants to get some sleep.” How stupid I was then.

Before the New Year holidaysmy son told me that he quit his job (the company went bankrupt). Well, I gave them some money, promising that after the holidays I would help them find a job. A month has passed, two, three, six months, and my son doesn’t even try to look for a job, he just says that they won’t hire him anywhere, and he lies on the sofa. There is no money in the family, the daughter-in-law got a job, and the daughter was sent to kindergarten. My unloved daughter-in-law began to do for the family the same thing that her son did while she was sitting at home. Only the girl worked silently, gritting her teeth and did not run to her friends to rest. Here I revised myrelationship with her and finally took her side.

After 3 years, she simply divorced my test-antibiotic.com son, she couldn’t stand it because he also went out with friends, only on hermoney , also did not come to spend the night often. She probably did the right thing.

And what happened is that my son has been living alone for 9 years. He is 40 years old, he still does not work and has not found a family. I feed and clothe him. I’m very tired, I can’t imagine how to break this vicious circle. Talking doesn't help, swearing doesn't help either, but I can't leave him - I'm still a son.