Adult films are ruining our marriage
Married only 2 years. Youngfamily , 28 years old. I look good,husband is always happy to have sex. Sex is 3-4 times a week. It could be more often, I'm for it, but we work on different schedules, I almost always leave early in the morning, while my husband is sleeping, when he comes home from work, I'm already asleep. There are no joint exits. Together we are only 4 evenings a week on weekdays, and then I come home from work, do household chores, get tired, sometimes I just want to lie down with a movie. But there is sex, I do not refuse, I myself take the initiative and respond to the initiative of my husband. My husband admitted that he was not enough, I want me to show interest myself more often. The question is when? Teleport from work when the husband wakes up? Or get up in the middle of the night when the husband comes? I don't understand.
The husband admitted that he sometimes watches porn, only with girls who look like me (absurd). I could not stand it, checked his phone and made sure that he watches such films for adultsevery day . In the morning, when I'm already at work, in the evening, when I'm already sleeping. Regardless of whether there was sex the day before or not. It's upsetting to me. I understand that many people watch porn when there is no way out, but in such quantities? I hate that my husband looks at other women in the video. In my life, I didn’t notice behind him that he was looking at anyone, but now I’m not sure. He works in a field full of people.
What should I do? Scandal? Get a divorce? The conversations did not help, he still continues and believes that everything is ok. In addition to porn, I found situations on his phone when he was deceiving. I was on a business trip a month ago, I wrote that I went to bed at 10 pm, and now I see in the search history at 3 am that he was then online and was looking on Google for how to make cocktails.
I love my husband, I don’t cheat, I don’t look at others, I’m not interested in porn. My husband does this to me and plus everything, he constantly accuses me of lies and betrayals (which are not). At work I have only women, I really don’t go anywhere except work and at home.
I do not know what to do.
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