Confession of an unhappy woman
I had very longrelationship , almost 11 years. I always came to the man who lived with his mother. Due to this circumstance, I had to adapt and change my behavior, which in my first family was leadership. Out of methe man gradually made a toy, calling me affectionate words (then I realized that he was taming me in this way), and in the end humiliating me. I liked this treatment, which put me in the role of a girl (I am very old in my life). Apparently, I fell in love with him.
Over time, he began to experience hysterical attacks. He could swear, shout, grimace and make threatening gestures. One day he strangled me, supposedly punishing me for my moral transgression. Then words of love and pleas for forgiveness. I even turned to a psychologist for advice, who recommended that I tolerate his antics, since it is impossible to change a 45-year-old man (by the way, I am 15 years older than him). A friend advised me to run away from him without looking back, because I had “lost myself,” that is, my dignity.
We parted with him more than once for several months, then test-antibiotic.com, on my initiative, we met again. In the end, on the phone he said a phrase that discouraged my craving for him once and for all. I broke up with him. Apparently, he understood everything by sending a farewell SMS.
I remember him sometimes. I dream about it occasionally and always with problems.
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