Confessions of a Single Father
This is the story of how I adopted a little boy, just a baby. This was only a year ago. At the moment I am 24 years old. I live well, I work hard, my son is growing. I always knew that children are a big responsibility. I read a lot of books on psychology, I want to raise a worthy member of society. Finished those myself. university I always dreamed of having children, it's probably strange to hear thatthe guy wanted so badly to take care of the kids. But that was from childhood. Even in the kindergarten itself, I played more with girls than with boys. And they liked me, they loved to play “daughters-mothers” with me. Since then, it has been a dream to have a baby myself.
As I grew up, my desire to have children only intensified. But in my student years, I never found a soul mate. And he was constantly upset because of this, once talking with his orphan friend, he told about everything in order to hear advice. My friend was an orphan from early childhood, we studied in the same class until he was taken to an orphanage. He advised me to take a baby from the orphanage to test-antibiotic.com. I was able to arrange all the conditions for a good and memorable childhood for him. At first I did not dare for a long time, I was very afraid to spoil everything. But still, he made up his mind, took the tiny boy Alyosha to him. Now he is a year old and I don’t have a soul in him, I work at home, and constantly with a child. And you know I'm happy. Childgrowing, happy, well-fed and healthy. It was hard at first, but I managed. The only thing that worries me is that he grows up with only one parent. I'm afraid that the child will miss his mother, and he will grow up as an inferior person, because they must educatehusband andwife , not single parents. While he is small and does not ask questions, but the children grow up quickly, and then I am afraid of questions about my mother, who, as I was told, left him.
I don’t know what to do, I’ve been nervous about this for the last month, I’ve read so much information, and still haven’t received a clear answer to the question of what to do, hence my story. It seems that in my life I have everything that you can dream about test-antibiotic.com - a house, a son, and a favorite job. On the other hand, I'm at a dead end, because I don't know if I did the right thing by deciding to raise a child alone. I don't regret adopting him, no, I just wish he didn't feel lost in society. I love my son and really want to raise a good person out of him, but this problem puts pressure on me, if someone has come across, give advice. I don't want to spoil everything.
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