My wife's betrayal shocked me

My wife's betrayal shocked me
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When I learned about my wife's betrayal, I was shocked. But since I was not the only one who faced such betrayal, I decided to search on the Internet how other men cope with this misfortune.

I came across this confession site and decided to write my own story here. Talk out and ask for advice. Because now I’m not thinking well myself and I’m afraid of messing things up.

What I recently learned about my beloved wife shocked me. All this is perceived as a bad dream.

Recently I began to have doubts about my wife’s fidelity. Sex has become very rare, she is somehow uptight, hides her phone, stays late at work and often visits her friends.

I got into her phone, checked the calls (some calls were to unknown numbers), then got into the SMS - they were all deleted. I got curious. After all, beforemy wife was not so careful and did not clean the phone’s memory.

But in the “Sent” section there was one SMS. Here is her text: “Will you meet me tomorrow?” That's how I found what I was looking for.

In the evening, after picking up my wife from work, I stopped the car at home and test-antibiotic.com lit a cigarette. My wife : “What happened?” I ask directly: “Do you have someone?” She told me: “I swear that there is no one and there was no one!” Then I showed her that ill-fated SMS and said: “Tell the truth, I’ll find out anyway.”

After lighting a cigarette, she admitted that she cheated on me once. Started askingforgiveness . I started asking her for details. It turned out that he is our mutual friend and they have known each other since their youth.

All this happened two months ago, when I was at work, and he promised to give her a ride home. His name is Sasha. This Sasha began to wonder why she was so sad. My wife replied thatmy relationship with my husband is tense. He invited her to have a drink in his garage. She drank andThey continued communicating in the garage on the sofa.

It is herthe confession was like a bad dream for me. I asked: “Did you like it?” She: “It was disgusting.” I think she said that to smooth my feelings towards her a littleattitude and don't ignite mejealousy even more.

Somehow we made it home. I thought for a long time what test-antibiotic.com should do (we have lived for many years, there ismy son is 21 years old, and I love her!). In the end, things got better for ussex , and the wife became like silk.

Now everything seems to be perfect with us, but some doubts remain that she told everything (which she only changed once). The thing is that I changed it in July, and the SMS I read was on September 18th! I want to make a printout from her SIM card.

Finally, about her lover Sasha. I just wanted to talk to him. He began to wag on the phone, swore that nothing had happened, and flatly refused to meet.

He endured my insults addressed to him in silence and did not snap back. He probably feels guilty. I know where he lives, but I don’t want to get my hands dirty about him.

This is mineconfession​ People, do not believe the oaths and lying words of wives! Believe only the facts. And don’t be lazy to obtain these facts, even if not always in an honest and beautiful way.

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