My father kicked me out of the house, and now I have to take him in with me

Dad raised us as best he could alone. Me, sister and brother. My grandmother also helped as much as possible with her pension. We lived in my mother's apartment.

When I was 17 years old, my grandmother died and upon completion she left me an apartment, andfather thought thatthe apartment will be his. In general, he set a condition - either I write a refusal letter in his name, or that I leave home. I thought that if I give up the apartment now, where will I live with my future family? I left with what I was wearing.

I was starving. Then she lived at her mother-in-law’s dacha, worked there from morning to night, then found a job in a pastry shop. Dad didn't even say hello to me. They supported me as best they couldsister and brother.

After 3 years, dad himself came to make peace. As it turned out, then my sister filed a complaintcourt to evict him from the apartment and he needed minehelp (brother was underage). I helped him in court. My sister lost. Then there were several more similar ships. In the end, I took him in with me.

After some time, he found a woman and began to live with her. He doesn’t help us in any way, he never even gives gifts to his granddaughters and tells everyone that I owe him an apartment. At the same time, when that woman periodically kicks him out, he lives with me. I silently accept it, but I myself feel offended. I didn’t do anything bad to him and didn’t ask my grandmother to leave the apartment to me. It was her decision.

I do not know howforgive him. When I try to talk to him, he pretends not to hear or changes the subject. I know that in his old age he will live with us and I’m afraid of it. Now I’m 35 years old, and I don’t know what to do next.