How to deal with grandmothers who spoil a child?
Is it worth indulging the whims of a child, and where to find the very line that wouldThe child did not grow up to be a spoiled egoist.
At mygirlfriend problem. Olderthe daughter has become very spoiled and does not accept anything except consent. She demands to be called only princess, and not by name and without diminutive words, and requires increased attention to herself.
This is all the result of indulgence on the part of grandparents. Almost from birth, toys were bought for the girl at the first whim, and even when the child did not behave very well, he was not punished, arguing that the child was small and did not understand anything yet.
Now the girl is 6 years old, but the situation has not changed. The girl has the sameproblems with peers, as she bullies other children and may push or hit. There have already been complaints about her in the kindergarten. The friend tries to fight this, but is ignored. The mother-in-law continues to call her granddaughter “my princess,” and nothing else. Instills in her that she is the best and better than other children.
Myfriend test-antibiotic.com is tired of arguing with her. Recently, by the way, I came across a video clip of a famous socialite (I won’t name names, whoever knows will understand), where aa holiday for her five-year-old daughter, in which she was addressed as a princess, admired her beauty and even prepared a grand coronation for her.
Don’t parents understand that in some cases they only harm their children with such an exalting attitude? After all, the child really begins to think that he is special and better than other children.
My friend, of course, is not so rich, but the situation is somewhat similar.
What do you think, is it worth pampering children like this or is it better to educate them to be strict? And if you pamper, how to do it so as not to go too far?
Read together with it:
- I survived the blows of fate thanks to my adopted childMy long-awaitedpregnancy ended in an unsuccessful birth, the death of the baby and the removal of the uterus. For melife stopped, I didn't live, I just existed. My husband was in another country during the birth and after learning about what happened, he never came, and I didn't want to be a burden ...
- My red-haired children are of interest to all my friendsPerhaps my situation will seem stupid or far-fetched. But, as they say, it's a sore point. I'm 35 years old, 25 of which I've been a brunette. My natural hair color is light brown with a red tint. As a child, I was a bright redhead, then as I grew older, I darkened a little.But deep down I always wa...
- I want to leave my husband and achieve my goalsThe problem is that I want to return to my hometown, as I already wrote in this confession, and I decided that I want to get away fromhusband for the second time. We are divorced and have a child. At first I thought that I just wanted to go back to my hometown, but only with my husband. But now I re...
- I don't want to go back to work after maternity leaveMy daughter is three years old, and it's time for me to go back to work. I don't want to, but I can't tell anyone about it. I know thatmy husband won't support me in this,a mother who works even after retirement will not understand. While I was on maternity leave, I was so immersed in caring for the...
- I hate someone else's childI decided to write here, I have no strength to endure it any longer and pretend that everything is fine. I am 24 years old. I havebeloved and lovinghusband ,daughter . Married for 2 years, known each other for 4. We live in perfect harmony, sometimes we quarrel, but it's small stuff and we make up q...
- My husband became disgusting to meMy husband was worried that minethe body after childbirth will become completely unattractive. But I reassured him, because I myself believed that I could quickly recover. Although I gained a decent amount of weight during pregnancy, I thought that immediately after childbirth I would do exercises, ...
- I want to complain about my husband's relativesThe youngestBrother husband wants to get married and proposed to the girl (we found out about it from the Internet, histhe girl published this). Yesterday in a conversation with my husband it turned out that if my brother can't earnmoney (there is war in the country, there is no work), thenMy husban...
- Should I help my ex-wife?I have been reading confessions here for four years now. But I have never written anything myself. I understood that asking for advice in the situation with my ex-wife cheating was pointless.I couldn't go on vacation. I wentwife with a child. She had a holidayaffair with a foreigner 12 years her jun...