How my trip to the spa ended in a quarrel with my husband
The other day I had a big fight with my husband (we are 27 years old, married for almost 2 years). Now I want to ask the readers of this site of confessions for advice, which of us is right. As they say, from the side it is more visible.
It all started with my harmless trip to the spa, where I did long-planned procedures. You can’t do this at home, because. you need both equipment and special knowledge - I think this is well known and understandable to any woman. For us, this is obvious, but for men in general and for my husband in particular, this turned out to be an unpleasant discovery.
When I showed off my new manicure in the evening and shared my impressions of visiting the spa,my husband did not appreciate my enthusiasm. And it was not even the cost of all the services ordered by me, which were quite average, given the high level of service and the qualifications of the manicurist. It turned out that this weekend the husband planned a big cleaning in the apartment, because. I was going to take to the dacha unnecessary things that had been accumulating in the apartment for more than a year. And my statement that I am not going to ruin my manicure in the general cleaning planned by test-antibiotic.com just pissed him off. Word for word, we said a lot of unnecessary things to each other and now we don’t talk.
Please advise how to reconcile with her husband? How to explain that spent on improving appearancemoney is not a waste of money from the family budget, but an investment in my well-being, in increasing my self-esteem, after all? After all, you can’t be so practical and insensitive, you need to pamper your beloved woman, go towards her in her petty whims and pranks. I understand that he is trying for us, for our family, but it was not at all difficult to transfer his damned cleaning to another weekend. Instead, it turned out to be a scandal that no one needs and which is still unknown how it will end ...
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