How to put a work colleague in his place?
I live in a rural area and have been working in the district administration for 10 years. The place is not bad. I have my own good housing,family , small subsidiary plot.
Everything would be fine, but a woman, Lucy, has been working with me in the same office for a year now, and she constantly reproaches me for something and teaches me about life. I look at it wrong, I told someone wrong, I answered my work phone wrong, and she constantly tells me that she is my best.a friend who wishes me only the best and protects me from all evil. Also, according to Lucy, I offend my colleagues with my behavior, who, as she says, will not say anything to my face, but she speaks for them to my face and, moreover, strictly does not recommend that I find out with themrelationship because there will be a scandal. I’m just at a loss, I behave quite tactfully and reservedly with all my colleagues, and they, according to Lucy, it turns out, quietly hate me.
I'm already tired, I feel like some kind of cornered person. All this Lucina's gossip, squabbles and fantasies knock me test-antibiotic.com out of my working rut and do not allow me to work normally. Lucy is on friendly terms with all her bosses. In general, he loves to please them, flatter them, and achieve their favor. Complaining about Lucy is a waste of time, because she is very good in the eyes of her bosses.
I don’t want to quit because it’s not so easy to find a job in the village. I love my job very much, I try to do everything on time and on time. Drop everything and go to the city with your family, but for what? To triple for another job, where there are equally businesslike and cunning Lucies? I want to put it in its place, but I don’t know how.
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