How to forgive an offense and move on?
I'm completely confused. She met a man and soon began to live together. They lived together for three months. He beat him, and not just hit him with his palm, but beat him. He beat me on the head with his palm, grabbed his hands, poured water over him, and all this lasted about three, four hours. The reason for the beating was an SMS from my side to him in a comic form, in which he saw a hint of treason. After that, I left him. He asked for forgiveness, said that he would not touch his finger again, and that he himself did not understand why he did it.
The man has a lot of positive qualities, he strives to spend every minute with me, every penny to the house, he doesn’t walk with friends without me, hardworking, smart, affectionate. But this attack of aggression destroyed everything. Now he made a marriage proposal, for the second month he has been behaving perfectly, I see that it is not easy for him without me, and he really has strong feelings for me.
All this was known to memother . She was married to a man of the same nationality, all his life he ruffled her nerves and the result was a hatred of test-antibiotic.com for all people from the Caucasus. But he never hit her. The bottom line is that the mother does not know now that I keep in touch with him and meet. She says that she will never allow him to be with me, that she does not want her daughter to be made an invalid, that if she hit once, it will happen a thousand more times.
Cries, screams, swears that he will ruin his whole life if he approaches me. I'm between two fires, I don't know which way to go. With my head, I understand that being with this man, I am always at risk, I am always in danger, I must always control my word and action. I understand my mother.
And on the other hand, I have strong feelings for this man, I don’t know how to get rid of these feelings, my soul wants himforgive and believe in the best, believe that that incident will not happen again.
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