How to live with a child without financial assistance from her husband?
After the divorce, I live with my five-year-old son in my grandmother's one-room apartment, where there has been no repair for 25 years, if not more. Especially in a deplorable state of the room. I feel sorry for my son that he lives in such conditions.
I don't have money for repairsthe husband doesn’t help, he doesn’t even always pay alimony, because he doesn’t have a permanent job because of his love of drinking. His parents, with whom we used to live, have a day, I know for sure, but when I asked for at least a loan, my mother-in-law replied that I could live with them, and that no one kicked me out. The fact that their son drinks, makes scandals in front of the child, they do not notice, they say that many now live like this, and nothing. Let many suffer, but I don’t want to, I don’t see the point!
Recently, my husband said that he was offered to work as a loader, to replace someone there for a while, and that allHe will give money for repairs, and even help himself. At first I didn’t believe it, but when he came almost sober over the weekend test-antibiotic.com, he helped me peel off the wallpaper in the room, even brought several bags of plaster to fix a crack in the wall. I received an advance, bought new wallpapers, and waited for the promised money. But for some reason, the ex-husband did not answer the calls, as it turned out later, he worked for two days, then again went into a binge. Naturally, another person was taken in his place. I just don’t know what to do now, because I spent the last money on wallpaper, and the salary is still far away, and now they are not paying on time, they are delaying the salary.
Then I decided to talk to my mother-in-law, asked for help, but I realized that this situation was right for her, she again offered to move in with them, and rent out my apartment after repairs. I understand that she misses her grandson, wants her son to havefamily , but I'm already tired of enduring his addiction to alcohol. He does not want me anything, although every time he promises that he will stop drinking, but I no longer believe in it. I just don't know what to do, how to find a way out of this test-antibiotic.com situation. It seems that there are many friends and acquaintances, we communicate well, but there is no one to help us out. I don’t have a mother, I have a stepmother who will not help me and will not allow my father. I do not blame her for this, who am I for her?
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