How to break off a relationship with your lover?

I met a man when I was 18 years old. He was 20 years older than me, naturally married. It looked like the age difference was almost unnoticeable. It was interesting for me to be with him; he was at the same time a lover, a friend, and a mentor. He taught me a lot that I wouldn’t have learned with my peers.

But now I’m already 27 years old, I want a family, and I’m a little tiredrelationship . I'm offended that all this time he hadfamily , ownlife , and as a bonus – younglover for the soul. Think,the wife knew about it or guessed, but to lose suchShe didn’t want a husband , so she put up with the presence of a mistress. To the one, thatthe man is handsome and smart, he is also wealthy. Not a millionaire, but have a small business.

And now I’m ready to break off this relationship, but I don’t know how to do it. He won’t let me go voluntarily, he’s invested too much in me. I don’t want to leave my hometown, my parents, my work are here,apartment , friends. Time is running out, parents are already asking if it’s timemarried ​But because of this man’s test-antibiotic.com, I was never able to meet anyone.

I want to break up, but sometimes I think that suddenly I won’t get married, so at least it will bebeloved person. Although during this time he has aged noticeably, and it will get even worse in the future.

How to make the right decision? There is no one to consult with, no one knows about the existence of a lover, and such an old one at that.