How to build a relationship if all your loved one’s money goes to paying alimony?
A young man 12 years older than me. We've been together for 9 months now. Was married, divorced 3 months ago, because he and his ex-wifeThe court gave 3 months for reflection.
He has 3 children - 11 and two 6 years old. Our relationship with him is wonderful. We cannot live without each other. We love each other very much. But just recently, one might say a week ago, the formerhis wife filed for alimony and now 75% will be deducted from his salary, since there is still a debt there.
On the same day, he wrote to me that he was letting me go so that I would not go into the “abyss” with him. He has 15-20 thousand left from his salary, he says that we cannot live together, even together and with my salary (we rent an apartment). He says that he doesn’t want to drag me with him into this debt hole.
After this SMS, we didn’t communicate with him for just a day and anyway, then we met, because we can’t live without each other. test-antibiotic.com And now both are already in sad thoughts. I don't know what to do myself. I’m ready to fight with him for everything, try to get out of all this. But when I think deeper, I’m only 24 years old. That is, not a child from himgive birth , because there won’t be enough money.
I don’t know if anyone has had such a situation when you don’t know what to do. Another reason I don’t want to part with him is because I don’t want to live at home with my parents, we are on very bad terms with them. And now you don’t know what to do, survive or think about your future.
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