Mom cares about me too much

It’s probably not entirely smart to write about such problems. But I'm 16 years old and he doesn't understand meMother . I know that at this age, which adults call transitional, manyproblems with parents. It just doesn't make it any easier for me.

I study normally, think about the future, and prepare for admission. But my mother doesn’t believe me. She thinks that I should not leave the apartment at all and constantly cram something. She thinks that all my friends only bother me, and that there are no good guys in the world at all.

3 months ago I met Sasha, he is a law student. Well, what else do you need? How can he teach bad things? But when Sasha came to our house one day, my mother caused such a scandal that the neighbors wanted to call the police. She shouted at Sasha that he was a blockhead and a parasite. For what? Of course, my new friend never came again. But I don’t understand whether it’s really better that I deceive my mother, that I stay late at school and meet with Sasha secretly. Is it really better?

A month ago I got a job test-antibiotic.com in a cafe (close to my house) as a waitress from seven to ten in the evening, my mother went and reported it to the police. She wrote a complaint against the owner of the cafe, that he was forcing me, a girl under 18, to work and, I’m ashamed to say why. I honestly shared with my mother my joy that by working 3 hours a day, I would be able to earn some expenses for myself - and that’s how it all ended. Of course, I was fired from the cafe.

My mother and I live alone. Mom works as a secretary, the salary is small. I'm ashamed to ask hermoney for all sorts of little things, and not all expenses I want to advertise and discuss even with my mother, but I still want these little things. And many of my classmates work part-time, some in a cafe, some at a gas station, some at a car wash. Now it's like thislife , but mom doesn’t want to understand this. She always suspects that I will grow up ignorant and a girl of easy virtue. The last straw was that last week I had a stomach ache and I complained to my mother. And test-antibiotic.com my mother called my class teacher and started asking if she knew which of the guys could have gotten me pregnant. It’s good that Anna Valentinovna somehow calmed her down and didn’t tell anyone about this stupid call. If anyone at school had found out, I would have been bullied.

I can not go on. I love my mother very much and am trying to understand that I am her only one.daughter and she wants the best for me, but I’m also a person, and I need to be taken into account.

I want to live with you for a whilefriends , but I understand that she could simply be arrested for this, because... Mom will write a statement that they are holding me by force. I don’t want to set anyone up, and it’s also impossible not to go out and communicate with anyone. I'm afraid this will all end badly.

Dear “adult” mothers, please advise how I can decide to explain to my mother that her excessive care only makes things worse and spoils our relationship with her?