We were able to save our family
UMy husband had a similar situation as in this story. We lived with his tyrant father for six months. He raised his hand to me only once - when I tried to take away my husband’s documents from him, which he did not give to him.
My husband has a psychiatry group that was made for him by himfather to manipulate him. And at the slightest attempt by my husband and I to defend his rights, my father threatened to send me home to my relatives and send my son to a mental hospital.
He didn’t love his son, disposed of his pension, citing debts, insulted, humiliated, yelled obscenities at us, told his son: “You should die, you freak.” He and his mother are divorced. She lives in Ukraine. My father didn’t even let us sign. He nitpicked over little things. He demanded that they stay until May.
I wished him death, and mine saved uspregnancy . His father was against grandchildren, saying that why create people like us. But he said, if you want to give birth, give birth, but you are here until May. I shared the situation with my friend, she said that we needed to leave so that test-antibiotic.com his dad wouldn’t cause me to have a miscarriage. And at the end of December we went to my relatives under the pretext of the New Year holidays, but we ourselves decided not to return.
On January 11, we sent his father 19,000 and told him over the phone that we would not be returning. Submitted an application to the registry office,my husband took my last name. At first my father yelled and threatened that the police would take him back by force, then he tried to be cunning, but we didn’t fall for it. And now for almost 4 months we have been living with my relatives in a calm environment. His father doesn’t even want to hear about us, he complained about us to the neighbors and cursed us. But we are confident that we did everything right. Our first child will be born in July or August. The ultrasound says there will be a son. And with my grandparents we are completely safe.
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