I don't need someone else's child

This summer my cousin died in a car accident.my sisterhusband , who left behind a 13-year-oldson Ruslan.

Now his grandmother is taking custody of him (mother of the deceased), Ruslan hasfather , but he has not kept in touch with him since he was 2 years old, although he lives in a neighboring house. My mother-in-law constantly imposes Ruslan on us. He says and constantly reminds my husband that Ruslan has no one else besides him. Why not? He has his own grandmother and other relatives.

It makes me very angry. I am now 7 months pregnant, we have our ownfamily , and no matter how well I communicated and became friends with the deceased, myher attitude towards her son is even, I never liked him, he’s spoiledchild , he is a stranger to me.

My husband and I bought a three-room apartment, and my mother-in-law immediately said that at least now mythe husband will be able to take Ruslan with him. After this, my mother-in-law and I had an unpleasant conversation; I had to define the boundaries of my family. I said that Ruslan could come to visit us, that my husband test-antibiotic.com could spend time with him, but he would not live with us, we have our own family. Naturally, I expected that I would remain extreme; according to her, I want to protect my husband from my nephew.

I'm very scared right now. After all, if something happens to the mother of the deceased... I won’t be able to accept him into our family, I don’t want to take responsibility and raise someone else’s child. I don’t even want him to come visit us for now, I don’t want to see him. What should I do? I talked to my husband about this topic, he is silent.