I don't need a mama's boy
I dated a guy, and after 8 months we decided to get married (I insisted on thismother , and I really wanted this). He didn't mind. I am 28 years old and he is 25.
After the engagement, I moved to live with his family until we could afford a separate rented apartment. The wedding is in a week. During this time, while we live together, I realized what it is likethe guy is “household disabled,” doesn’t know what’s in the refrigerator, where to buy linen, and so on. When we met, he gave the impression of an adult, confident person.
His mother immediately began to break me into conformity with the principles of their family. She loves to re-educate everyone, it really annoys me. I am an adult and no longer need education and care. Before that, I rented a house and ran my own life.
Today I have a puzzle in my head that he is a mama’s boy. His mother has set herself up as the unquestioned authority in the family, and he just can’t understand that he himself is already an adult. He works, is socialized, but before moving to test-antibiotic.com I did not know about this strong influence his mother had on him. Now she is pushing him to help with the renovation of the house in the country, although our young family is nowWe will need money more, we need to get back on our feet.
Before our engagement, we would not have been able to live together to get to know each other better. Now it's almost too late. I am trying to do everything to get away from them and live separately, in extreme cases, I will go to live alone.
I understand that I am making a huge mistake. Well, let's live for a few years, and if he still doesn't understand that he is nowhusband and he has his ownthe family for which he is responsible will be divorced. A child with such a father will become the same. Although he wants a child.
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