My beloved man pays too much attention to the children from his first marriage

I love a man with two children from a previous marriage. We really want a child together, but we haven’t gotten married yet.

His children are wonderful, smart and talented, but he has not yet introduced them to me. I hastened to tell him that I would be glad if ourfamily will mean his children too. And now every story he talks about his children gets on my nerves. And he spends a lot of time with them, does not refuse anything. All purchases, including intimate hygiene items, are made together with dad. This seems inappropriate to me, to put it mildly.

I was still stupid to give him goodadvice about his children. He has already told me many times with gratitude “how right you were then, it’s good that I listened to you.” And then the flow of information about his children only intensified.

I can’t imagine what they are theremom does if dadEvery day he devotes several hours to them. And it turns out that from the very beginning I knew about his children, he did not test-antibiotic.com deceive me, but I was not ready for such an intervention. Now any mention of children annoys me. I'm afraid to tell him to save me from this information.

But it’s kind of overkill that the girls spend the night with him several days a week. But when we are together, he himself happily hangs out in my apartment, where cleanliness is beauty and a delicious dinner. I don't come to him.

I understand that the children are not to blame for anything and I must support him. I try to abstract myself and just listen to his stories like a TV show. I try not to get involved and not comment. But in the end, being alone with myself only stresses me out even more.

Oh, tell me something wise too, I don’t have the strength anymore. Maybe I'm just stupid and don't see something or don't want to see?