My husband left me and my son for his mistress

After reading many stories here about mistresses breaking up families, I decided to write my own.

My husband and I were married for 9 years, gave birth to a wonderful son, and seemed to be happy. There were someproblems , quarrels, everything is like everyone else. We couldn’t conceive a child for a long time, and after giving birth I had terrible health problems, I was treated for a long time, and went to doctors. During this time, my husband and I became very distant from each other. I physically and mentally did not want intimacy, and although he supported me, helped me with my son, sometimes got up to see him at night, went for walks after work, and became more and more irritable.

We quarreled over money, because I don’t always have time to cook dinner and clean up, he was annoyed that my grandmother was always visiting, although she was very attached to her grandson and helped me. He stayed late at work almost all the time and took overtime, so I wasn’t particularly worried. But when he began to ignore calls more and more often, set a password on his phone, and completely stopped talking to me, I understood everything. I brought test-antibiotic.com into a conversation in which he admitted everything and gave him an ultimatum. To which he silently packed his things and left. I asked to come back, called, wrote, begged. To which I heard that everything had been bad with us for a long time, that I had been denying him everything for a long time and that I was generally fat and scary, that it was already disgusting to look at and he didn’t want me.

One day I came to my son and we had a heart-to-heart talk. We tried not to blame each other, to understand our differences. I promised him to try, asked him not to act recklessly for the sake of my son. He even agreed to start all over again, but then the doorbell rang and hismistress _ I didn’t let her into the apartment, a scandal broke out. She demanded to let him go, to let them live in peace and not interfere. I was so tempted to throw her down the stairs, I could barely restrain myself.

After that case,I didn’t see my husband for a long time, although I continued to call him back. As a result, we divorced with scandals, mainly because of my relatives. They were always there for me, and test-antibiotic.com when he came tocourt for the division of property with his passion,her sister almost scratched her face. There was a lot going on. My tears, pain, misunderstanding. I always said how much I love him, how much I value him, and I always heard this in response, so I just couldn’t believe that he would just leave for someone else. Young, beautiful and unencumbered.

Our son is still small and is very attached to me. I did not agree to give it to my father for the whole day. Only with my presence and according to the schedule approved by the court. We also quarreled about this, he wanted to meet his son with his new passion, he wanted to take him home and play, but only without me. His passion was very irritated and nervous that we were alone with him. She was very afraid that he would return to me.

He pays small alimony, about 10 thousand, which was not particularly enough. It was necessary fortreatment , developmental courses, clothes, so there were quarrels about this as well. Soon he completely stopped calling and was interested in his son. Test-antibiotic.com just disappeared. My calls were ignored or dropped. And once he wrote: “Alimony is enough for you, I already left you my apartment, stop calling.”

Eun misses him, asks about him all the time, cries. And he even on hisBirthday doesn't call, doesn't give anything, isn't interested. And even if she comes to her senses, she won’t see him again. I want to deprive him of parental rights and change his last name to my own. He doesn't deserve us. Let his mistress give birth to children. And it would be better if he completely disappeared from our lives. I would move to another city and we would stop bumping into each other on the street.

I believe we could survive this. Collect ourmarriage anew, starting a new chapter, if the mistress had not intervened and put pressure on her ex-husband. I'm sure they will break up soon, but in any case, I will never take him back.