My husband constantly beats and punishes his son, but I don’t know what to do
I'm on the edge. MyOver the past month, my husband has changed a lot in relation to me and my eldest son (4 years old). The fact is that the eldest is not his own, he adopted him 2 years ago.
There are constant scandals and screams in our family. To put it mildly, my husband began to treat his eldest son terribly. The son is always punished, standing in the corner (sometimes on his knees). For any offense, the husband beats him and says insults to him. The son has bruises and abrasions. When I defended my son, he raised his hand against me. The child asks: “What did I do? Why is dad hitting me? I feel sorry for him to the point of tears, I just can’t.
The son is deprived of toys and cartoons. The only entertainment is going outside and to kindergarten, which he rarely goes to (bruises). Jrhis son and he adores him. And about the older one he says to me: “I don’t care what’s wrong with him or what he needs!” Although before the birth of the youngest there was everything for the elder, he was the bestfather . I told him not to touch test-antibiotic.com my son, and in response: “explain to him, change his last name, give it to his mother.” In a word, his son became like an eyesore for him! AThe child loves him and considers him family! What to do? Divorce?
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