The husband confessed to cheating, but is in no hurry to leave the family

Lived with her husband (he is a military man) for 10 years. Child 6 years old. Everything was perfect from the first meeting to the last days. We went through a lot (change of citizenship, death of dear people, hot spots, moving to another city, etc.) to list everything.

I never drank, I didn’t beat, I didn’t call names, I tried everything for the family,family always comes first, everything is allowed (within reason). Loved the child! Relations with parents are excellent. Everyone shared with each other. Everyone envied us. I am an excellent hostess, but I try to look like 5. I trusted him and he me, they were never jealous of each other. I could leave for 2-3 months with a child. Before the decree, she worked, after, too, but because moved to another city, no relatives, no friends, I had to adjust to my husband's schedule. I went out to work for 1 year and ended up in the hospital, serious health problems, it took a long time to recover. Expensivetreatment .

During this year there were many problems: the discord of my parents because of my mistress, my illness, thenthe child got sick. Generally bad. There were fights and good things. And also the money of test-antibiotic.com is no longer enough! And so he came and said that he had another (an employee with a child, left her husband when she met him), they simply agreed that we would not lie. He said I'm the perfect womanmother , that she will not be dearer to me, mother-in-law says that she loves me, and that I love him, that there is no need to injure the child, she leaves us housing, she is ready to help financially. He asks for forgiveness all the time.

I see that toils or regrets? He didn’t take his things, he comes to eat, swim, to the child (he doesn’t know how to tell him, because he will have to live 1500 km away), helps and buys everything, but sleeps at work. Said he needed to think. I don't know what to do, hold on or let go. I love him, and the child suffers without him. In general, I'm going crazy, I have no friends. Very hard. His parents are on my side, I can’t tell my own yet, they won’t figure it out among themselves, I’m afraid they won’t forgive him, dad has a difficult character.