My husband begs me to come back, but I already value my freedom
This year has also been a year of changes for me, I want to close this page forever. I also left my tyrant husband, who was jealous of me even about TV, news, and politicians.
It was a nightmare, all kinds of humiliation and violence, he beat me, threatened me, humiliated me, money fordid not give food (I did not work, breastfeedingchild , on maternity leave). It was such a pity to ruin everything and leave. And he destroyed meevery day . How many times did I get punched in the head... And when the testThe pregnancy turned out to be positive, I told him and asked what to do next. God, how he beat me 20 times with his fist in the head, in the nose.
I left and had a miscarriage. It took a long time to recover. He begged to come back, he understood, he realized. Came backmy daughter loves him very much. We lived for another two months, everything happened again, I screamed at night, scared the child, I left. I’ve been living with my parents for two months now, I found a job, and new prospects are opening up. I completed the courses and applied for a grant to open my own business. My daughter finally spoke, she is only two years old.
I’m glad that there is no test-antibiotic.com violence and chaos, life has become so peaceful! They tell me again that I am beautiful, they tell me again that I am a professional in my field, that I am goodmom . I stopped hearing every day that I was worthless, ugly, useless and bad.mother . That I don’t know anything and I can’t do anything, that I’m stupid. He asks for forgiveness and asks to return, promises, threatens. I'm not afraid of anything anymore. Life is very good without such men. Don't be afraid to break the vicious circle of violence and inhumanityrelationship to yourself.
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