My husband wants to get a divorce, but he can’t decide
My husband and I got married very early, when I was not even 18 years old, and my husband was only 20. Everything started well, there werelove and romance. He loved me and I loved him very much. He had many girls before me, and he was my first. He is my first love. As they say, first love is very strong.
Over all these years, we could not have children, no matter how much treatment we tried, it just didn’t work out. After 9 years of marriage in one daymy husband accidentally met his ex-girlfriend, whom he told me he loved very much in his youth before me (not like me), and that his parents were against their relationship, and they separated. I started to notice the coldattitude towards myself, and one day I saw her getting into his car, he saw me, realized that I had seen them, but didn’t even call me or say anything, got into the car and went with her to a cafe. Then, when I returned home, I had a row, but test-antibiotic.com he said that he just met out of friendship, and I believed him.
Time passed and I sawhusband on the phone, that they communicated, called each other several times a day via video conference. I was very surprised by the fact that not just a call, but a video connection, this meant that he wanted to see her. And I forgave him again. Then again, after an hour, I saw her call him (I knew her number from memory). I took the phone and asked her why she was calling my husband, to which she replied that she had not called and turned off the phone. I packed my things and left; my husband was not at home at that hour. Then he called repeatedly, and I told him where I was, and he came to pick me up. During this entire hour, the husband was not himself, saying that he wanted children, that he could not live like this, that he was tired of everything. He was depressed, and I endured and helped him get out of it. This all lasted a year, and exactly a year later he reported to test-antibiotic.com that he could not live the way he wanteddivorce . But the fact is that one day he says that he wants a divorce, and the next day he again says that he does not want it. It’s difficult and painful for me to live like this, but I don’t know what to do.
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