My husband doesn't like my touch
I am 36 years old. Married for 17 years. During this time, my husband and I had periods of emotional distance and rapprochement. But lately I have been feeling rejection from him. He is irritated by my words and actions. He refuses my gifts. And what causes the most suffering is that my touch is unpleasant to him, to the point that he literally jumps out of his seat when I try to hug or touch. He says: “I don’t like this.”
I tried to talk to him frankly, I said: “If you don’t love me, let’s break up.” He does not perceive my words, he says: “I do everything for the house.” He goes to work overnight. Butfamily is not only everyday life. Lately I've even been having dreams in whichmy husband ignores me.
I'm already thinking maybe he hasmistress and I became unpleasant to him? Or just fell out of love?
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