My husband threatens me with divorce in response to all my comments.
Married to my husband for 7 years, there ischild 3 years old. The problem is that myhusband works 4/2 and spends all his weekends with his father (father lives with stepmother) and they drink every weekend.
With my stepmother and fatherhusbands are not very goodrelationship , because I am against my husband drinking and have told his father about this more than once. During trips to visit his father, my husband forgets to call us. Over the course of three years, he walked with his son 10 times, and then only in my presence. After work, he comes and collapses on the sofa (although I also work), on weekends, if he’s at home, he gets up when he’s had enough sleep, and if he’s come from his father’s, he won’t leave at all. She never gets up at night, even if she hears that the child is awake or crying. Now we take the child to kindergarten, my husband has days off during the week, but he never takes the child to kindergarten - I have to be late.
The problem is that the husband drinks from his father and with his father test-antibiotic.com (father knows that we haveproblems with her husband due to drinking), does not go for walks or play with the child, wants to go on vacation only in the presence of third parties. If I start telling my husband that he doesn’t spend time with us, let’s go somewhere together, the three of us, then he starts yelling at me: “I’ll explain everything to you now,” starts dividing property, scares me with divorce, etc. And his father has long helped my husband to divide the property, what and who will get it if we suddenly get divorced and my husband agreed with him and intimidates me every time. He calls me every time to his father, but I refuse, because... They told me to my face that we will not babysit your son.
When we were married, we purchased a basement room, it needs to be renovated. My husband refuses to hire a crew, he says there is no money (although on weekends with his father he can drink 2-3 thousand per evening). And as a result, the premises have been standing for three years.
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