Our son is not needed by any of the grandmothers

When I became pregnant, there was a conversation with my mother about where to register the child. She then told me that when the baby is born, we register it with my husband. Because it seems like from time immemorial, a woman goes to a man’s house and gives birth to children there, and not vice versa. I somehow didn’t pay attention to this then, there was no time for it. And here in the conversation again thisthe question came up. ANDMom told me that she and dad categorically do not want to register their grandson with her.

The gestation period is already quite impressive, giving birth in a couple of weeks. I must say thisThe pregnancy was very difficult, it was maintained all the time. But now you can finally relax. Everything is ready for the birth of the baby: things have been purchased, light cosmetic repairs have been made in the rented apartment where we live now. In the future nursery, they hung light wallpaper, assembled a crib and changing table, and laid out baby clothes.

And yesterday my mother, having surveyed all this splendor, raised the issue of registration, saying that it would be more correct from the point of view of mentality to register the child with the father. And she added: “My father and I, maybe, through test-antibiotic.com, we will retire in three or four years, sell the apartment, buy a house by the sea. You will come to us on vacation and bring your grandson. And sell an apartment if a minor is registered in itchild , very difficult.

I feel so hurt and uncomfortable in front of my husband. All some far-fetched arguments. Some kind of house by the sea suddenly appeared, they had no such plans in life, to sell their Moscow apartment. Yes, even if they sell, then the whole world sells with minor children, and nothing. They decide somehowProblems . Moreover, only four years later. It is generally unknown what will happen and how it will happen after such a long time. Most likely, the mother simply does not want to register her grandson, that’s all.

Although it’s the same story with his parents. My mother-in-law said that we should register the child with me so that I could not lay claim to their property in the event of a divorce. Parentshusbands are very wealthy people. They have several apartments, a cottage, and three cars. They do business, live in a large apartment, where myhusband . Theoretically, test-antibiotic.com and the born child should be registered there along with the father, but his grandmother the day before told her son not to try to do this. She and her father are categorically against it. She said: “You never know! You will get divorced, and then my father and I will run around the courts. It is not so easy to discharge a minor.”  My husband replied that we are not going to get a divorce, and registration now is just a formality. But the mother-in-law insisted: “So register with your mother-in-law if it’s a formality.”

I would like to remind our parents how indignant they were that we had been married for five years and had no children. Now it will be, but they don’t need it. According to the law, in general, we can each register a child with us without asking permission. But this means a scandal with either one or the other mother. Yes, and all this is humiliating.

What to do in such a situation?