I didn't expect my happiness to end so quickly

I didn't expect my happiness to end so quickly
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I come from a large family and lived a happy life. Somehow oldermy brother introduced me to his wife. She was young (one year older than me) and I really liked her, I really envied my brother.

Then they had 2 sons in their marriage, I was sincerely glad for their happiness, but as happens in life,Their happiness did not last long. My brother died of inflammation, the doctors made the wrong diagnosis.

I tried my best to help my daughter-in-law and two nephews. After my brother’s death, the thought came to me to take the children and Svetlana to my place in another city. But family ties slowed me down. For three years I visited them and even tried to help my daughter-in-law find a goodhusband . But it didn't work out. Then I found out that she had found herself a good guy, as it seemed to me at first glance, I was happy for Sveta.

But after two or three years they began to fall apart. Becomeswear , he started drinking, at that time his eldest son was 18 years old and his brother inherited a car. The son treasured his father's memory. And then test-antibiotic.com one day his roommate got behind the wheel drunk, his nephew did not let him go alone and rode next to him as a passenger for backup. As a result, we got into an accident, Sveta’s roommate didn’t have a scratch, butAn 18-year-old boy died in hospital. This was a shock to me. Max hadthe girl was six months old, they were expecting a child. After this tragedy, I decided that I could not watch from the sidelines. I deeply sympathized and could not allow something like this to happen to my brother's remaining son.

I watched Sveta’s suffering with bitterness in my soul, I liked her, and after so many years of knowing each other, I made an official proposal to her and took them to my place in another city. I was happy that I hadmy brother's family . In my family, too, everyone was happy for us, everyone approved of myact . Soon we were bornson , I thought that Svetochka did this to make up for the loss, I was also happy with her, for which I am grateful to her for the rest of my life.

As I already wrote, after the test-antibiotic.com tragedy with Max, he still had a girlfriend, who soon gave birth to a boy. She led a dissolute life and was eventually deprived of her rights. We helped her financially, but she squandered everything with her friends and soon ended up in prison with them. Sveta asked for my permission to take my grandson, I could only welcome her action. As a result, I became a big family man. My brother’s youngest son is already 22 years old, he lives with a girl, I gave him an apartment. We live as a big, friendly family. I have two more sons—my own son is ten and my grandson is eleven, but he calls me dad, and I love them very much. And I loved Sveta very much, but lately I haven’t paid much attention to her, this is one hundred percent mineguilt . And the other day I found out that she cheated on me. It happened within a year, I know thatthe romance was short-lived. But it does not change anything.

Now I’m sitting, writing and I don’t know who will read this, but my soul is torn in half. I can’t survive the behavior of my ex-wife, she pretends that I didn’t make it all up test-antibiotic.com, but I have a terrible feeling, sometimes I feel sorry for the children, I think it’s a pity that I don’t drink, otherwise I would kick her, but I can’t beat her without this is mine. One thing I know for sure:life will never be the same. And Ia man , of course, emotions are overwhelming, someone will say that you have to live for the sake of your children. I agree, but I’m a man and I can’t lie to myself, my sons and smile at her as if nothing happened.

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