I didn’t expect such an attitude from my son

I want to hear advice from mothers and sons. I never considered myself a bad mother. I am 61 years old, my son is 31. I loved my son and love him madly. I thought it was goldchild . There have never been any conflicts.

And now I don’t understand what happened to my son. He has been married for 4 years, his granddaughter is 3 years old. She accepted her daughter-in-law calmly, because this was her son’s choice. She didn’t give advice , didn’t meddle in life, didn’t ask for a visit, and only stopped by for 15-30 minutes when her granddaughter was brought from the dacha. When my granddaughter was born, I left my job with a good income, helped the children financially (helped to buy an apartment, gave expensive gifts to my daughter-in-law and son, took me abroad), looked after my granddaughter from 1 to 3 years old, all her illnesses were mine. We lived with her almost always outside the city, the children constantly came, I met them, as they say, with bread and salt. Gave my daughter-in-law the opportunity to make a career and earn moneymoney , because They had a mortgage and wanted a second child. And then on one far from wonderful day for me, my husband and I brought our granddaughter home to her parents after the test-antibiotic.com weekend; the daughter-in-law offered tea and noticed that there was nothing for tea. I said nothing. Our generation has somehow become accustomed to being treated to food at a party, and they themselves responded in kind.

After that, I asked my son why they didn’t feed mom, we were on the road. And in response I heard: if you don’t like it, don’t go, I don’t have a store here and there are many worse things. I turned off the phone because I simply fell into shock, from which I still cannot recover. I cry constantly and don’t know how to live further and what to do. My son doesn’t communicate with me after that, my daughter-in-law doesn’t call either, and I never quarreled with her. I don't know how to get out of this situation. I just asked my sonquestion and received full rudeness and humiliation in response. And yet, the son believes that he is always right and never asks for forgiveness. Probably minelove , like any maternal love, is blind.